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Helping kids face the realities of divorce

| Jun 25, 2020 | High-asset Divorce

When Nebraska parents decide to end their marriage, this choice may be especially difficult for the youngest members of the family. Divorce represents change in virtually every area of a child’s life, and it can be particularly difficult when parents are at odds over how child custody should work. There are things a parent can do to make this process easier for the kids and reduce the chance of long-term emotional trauma.

It’s normal for a parent to feel guilt over a divorce, and it’s normal to have concerns over how co-parenting will work. Kids often feel sad or angry. The goal of any custody agreement is to provide stability and security for the children, protecting their well-being over everything else. When telling kids of an impending divorce, parents should be honest and direct, but also sensitive about the timing and impact of that life-altering information. This is important, even if parents are feeling angry and frustrated themselves.

Some Nebraska parents may find it difficult to come to an agreement about child custody and visitation. When decisions are reached, whether it’s in court or in negotiations, kids should understand what is happening and what these decisions will mean for their everyday lives. No matter what a parent thinks about his or her ex-spouse, trashing talking the other parent is detrimental for the kids.

Divorce is difficult, but Nebraska parents can be intentional about helping their kids during this process. This may mean setting aside temporary feelings in order to prioritize the needs of the kids first. This is complicated, especially in contested divorces, which is why it is helpful for a parent to work with an experienced legal ally as they make important custody-related decisions.