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Co-parenting can be a challenge for months or years to come

On Behalf of | Aug 31, 2021 | Parenting Plans And Parenting Time

Simply because a divorce is final does not mean that everything will be simple and easy. Nebraska parents may find that it continues to be a struggle to juggle their co-parenting responsibilities, and it can sometimes be difficult to navigate the complexities of having kids split time between two homes. Unfortunately, this means parents may not always be present for certain events in the lives of their kids, such as the first day of school.

Some parents may find that co-parenting is an adjustment long after the divorce is final. The emotional difficulty that can come with sharing your kids with the other parent may get better over time, but it is important to acknowledge that co-parenting well requires an ongoing effort. Even months or years later, it may be helpful to remember that the ultimate goal, no matter how difficult it may be, is to protect the best interests of the kids above all else.

Tips for coping with changes

Sharing parenting rights and responsibilities can be a challenge. Kids often have to go through various adjustments and changes after their parents divorce, but parents have to navigate significant upheavals and alterations to their daily lives as well. One parent may not always be present for important things, but the following tips may be helpful for parents still struggling to cope:

  • Create your own “firsts” and celebrate milestones when able to do so.
  • Focus on the positives, and work on acceptance.
  • Be thankful for resilient children who are able to have good relationships with both parents.

Divorce is difficult for every member of the family, but it is better for everyone when parents are able to prioritize the best interests of the kids above their own temporary feelings and emotions.

A strong foundation

The key to making any co-parenting arrangement work well is to have a strong custody and visitation order in place. This will serve as the foundation of your interactions with the other parent and the stability you can provide for your kids going forward. When you are going through a divorce, you may find it helpful to learn more about your parental rights and how you can balance those rights with the needs of your kids during discussions about child custody.