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Post-divorce success for dads

On Behalf of | Sep 3, 2021 | Divorce

Dads can face various challenges after a divorce. They may feel like they don’t see their kids enough, and dads may also deal with complications regarding the security and protection of their parental rights. As a father, it is especially important to set yourself up for success both in your fight for a reasonable custody order as well as your post-divorce life with your kids.

It is easy to find yourself in a position where all you want to think about is the divorce and fighting for your desired outcome in your custody and visitation order. The terms you seek should make sense long term, which is why it is helpful to consider what it will mean for you to be successful post divorce. Your final order will be the foundation of how your relationship with your kids will work for years to come.

What should you do?

Nebraska dads may feel that their time with their kids is limited after a divorce, but they have the right to remain active and involved. This means making the most of the time you have and ensuring your kids feel secure and stable. Some of the things you can do for post-divorce success include:

  • Live close to your kids, and try to be present in activities, like attending sports games and school plays, whenever possible.
  • Remember your kids are also adjusting to post-divorce life, and they may need help and emotional support during this time.
  • If you have to pay child support, make your payments willingly and on-time.
  • Do your best to meet the terms of the custody order, as disputes and complications may cause the kids additional stress.
  • Use technology, such as video calling or texting, to stay connected with your kids when they are with the other parent.
  • Make the time you have with your kids count. Be present, engaged and prepared when it is your turn to have them in your home.

Some Nebraska parents find it helpful to create a parenting plan that outlines how they will navigate child custody. These agreements can include everything from drop-off procedures to how parents will split holiday vacation time. Regardless of how you and the other parent approach the issue of custody and visitation, it is important to remember the ultimate goal is to protect the best interests of your children above all else. Their post-divorce success and happiness is the priority.