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Taking a non-confrontational approach to co-parenting

On Behalf of | Feb 25, 2022 | Parenting Plans And Parenting Time

Your divorce will permanently the lives of your children, and you understand that this major event could have negative effects on their emotional health if not handled well. Your goal as a parent during this process may be to provide them with as much stability and security as possible. One way that many Nebraska parents achieve this goal is by choosing to co-parent together after their divorce is final. 

Co-parenting can be challenging as it will require you and the other parent to work cooperatively together. Divorce brings out many difficult emotions, and it is not always easy to work alongside a former spouse. To make this process easier and simpler for all involved, it will be beneficial to put the needs of the children first and keep their well-being as the primary goal. 

A strong co-parenting arrangement 

There is significant evidence that children benefit when allowed to maintain strong relationships with both parents after a divorce. Co-parenting is an effective way to accomplish this as it allows the kids to have regular access to both parents, providing them with stability and security. To make your co-parenting arrangement work well, the following may be helpful: 

  • Be respectful of the other parent and stay positive, particularly in situations where the children can see how you treat him or her.  
  • Try to present a united front, and do not speak negatively about the other parent in front of the kids as this could harm their perception of him or her. 
  • If there is a problem with the other parent, handle it privately in a setting where the kids cannot witness or overhear your discussion. 
  • Have a system in place for handling conflict in a constructive way, and make it a goal to remain reasonable when facing a difficult situation. 
  • Remain consistent with the custody and visitation schedule, and do not keep the kids from seeing or speaking with their other parent when they are with you. 
  • Do not paint yourself as the victim to your children as this could be harmful to their relationship with the other parent; instead, seek to forgive and move forward. 

The foundation of any sustainable and beneficial co-parenting arrangement is a practical custody and visitation plan. During your divorce, it is in the best interests of your children for you to pursue terms that will make sense long-term, providing them with a certain continuity of lifestyle and sense of security in their relationship with each parent.