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Certain Behaviors Could Affect Your Divorce Order

On Behalf of | Jun 16, 2023 | Divorce

When you are in the process of ending your marriage, you may find that your emotions are strong, and you could be dealing with anger, frustration, sadness and a range of other strong feelings. Your feelings are valid, but it is in your interests to ensure that you are not making decisions that could negatively impact your future. There are certain behaviors that could affect the terms of your order and ultimately impact your kids. The choices you make during divorce matter, and maintaining control is critical.  

The emotions you experience during your divorce could cause you to act in ways that are uncharacteristic of you. However, a Nebraska judge could see these things and make a decision for your custody and visitation order based on your most recent actions. It will be important to focus on what is most important, which is the terms of your order and the best interests of your children. 

The ways you could be self-harming 

It is possible that you are unaware of the things that you are saying and doing that could actually be harming your case and damaging your chance of securing your desired outcome. Some of the most common harmful behaviors seen during a divorce include the following: 

  • Using the children as a therapist or as a go-between with the other parent 
  • Trying to harm the child’s relationship with the other parent 
  • Purposefully engaging in conflict during the divorce 
  • Putting guilt or pressure on the children to pick sides 
  • Not adhering to the terms of the temporary custody and visitation order 
  • Interfering with the custody and visitation rights of the other parent 
  • Encouraging the children to lie to the other parent 

When parents act in harmful ways, it can ultimately harm the children. Despite how you feel in the moment, it is typically best for kids to maintain strong relationships with both parents after a divorce. Acting in certain ways could cause mental and emotional damage for the youngest members of the family. 

Seeking terms that benefit the entire family 

Instead of harmful behaviors, it is more beneficial to seek terms that will provide your kids with security for years to come. With the right terms, your custody order can be beneficial and sustainable for the entire family. You may find that it is easier to make practical decisions when you have experienced guidance at every step.